Struggle, This one word exists forever and is immortal in life. No matter which ever field do we pick out, the most commonly used ingredients are hard work, struggle, toil, drudgery, tough grind, uphill battle etc just in the hunt of glory. One cannot be successful by the means of magic and miracles, struggle and hard work is sine-qua-non. Its everybody's dream to reach great heights, cherish our ideals but not all of them are fortunate enough to achieve it because of plethora of reasons may be lack of perseverance, determination and commitment. Many a times we loose focus on our goals due to some incidents that takes place in our life that finally make us land on the wrong side of the bank.
We know that life is not an easy place, it’s not as smooth as you dream nor as easy as you think. Right from the time you take birth and go into the grave you face many hardships and bottlenecks. In the course of journey we feel life is cruel, hard and at times frustrating. We go through life like a flutter. It can be compared to an ocean where an unpredictable tsunami comes and causes a big devastation but also a rain of cats and dogs sometimes can fill life with vim, power and enthusiasm which makes you to reach the pinnacle of glory.
It’s really difficult to live if we compare our lives with others. But it will be helpful if we try to emulate them if they are worth of it. I have seen wide people with various attitudes and their own forte’s and weakness. But they seem to be ebullient just because their hearts are repleted with confidence. They know the rudiments of living and have learnt by the incidents they have encountered in their life. Realizing the tacit strengths, moving in its directions, giving complete commitment and dedication must make you taste glory and achieve what you have dreamt.
As I said earlier I have been seeing people with different attitudes. Among them I have seen the weirdest people and I ever again hope to look at them. They might be erudite and have novel ideas in their brains but they are not the champs as they think. Infact none in this world is perfect. But what matters is accepting the truth and being gregarious with the society. Instead of that they behave like gruff bears and clumsy always being indict in attitude. They knew that the path chosen by them is not an apt but still they push the envelope in it. Having being advised by people they still consider its flapdoodle. The reason is Ego. Had they given a whole hearted thought about the sincere advices given by their bosom friends they would not have been in a wrong perceptions. Because of their ego they loose people from their lives.
I've witnessed a cold blooded murder of friendship and the accomplice was ego. We have been listening to tales about self centrism from our budding days. It seems there were four friends Love, Friendship, Ego and Trust who lived together on an island. One day a big storm comes forcing all the four friends to desert the island. But one friend called Ego was not willing to come. Unable to abandon his friend Ego, Friendship jumps off the boat and goes to Ego and pleads to come out of the island but the stubborn Ego was not willing to leave the place. Storm became more powerful, waves started rising and the island was on the verge to submerge. Friendship tried its best to bring Ego out of the island but it was too late and the island was completely submerged in the ocean. Both friends lost their lives.
My dear friends we have a didactive lesson to be learnt from the above, “Friendship may die because of Ego “. We may be extremely intelligent and versatile but that does not mean that the people with whom you are living in the society are crap. They are strong in their own arena. Never try to blow your trumpets always. I have seen few people in my life who suffer from inferiority complex which makes them to start of braggadocio. This may kill the precious friendship and cannot be reclaimed.
So chums in a nut shell I wish to convey that life is a drama and we all are here to act and deliver our roles perfectly. But if we don’t do our role aptly this may make the drama a bad one. Life is game where every one requires playing. We don’t have choices. Life is hard and cruel at times. But don’t worry suck it up and play the best role you can leaving behind egoism, pessimism and empty boastings just carrying trust, support and belief with you so that we can all have fun living peacefully on this planet earth.
It is just a pure experience from my life. So friends please leave your candid feedback which could be helpful to me.
Chaitanya signing off for now................
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